1) How did you come up with the screenname SubmissiveAlexis? It took me a few days to figure out what I wanted my screenname to be, but I knew I wanted to relay my interest in BDSM and share it with my followers. I’ve been a submissive woman in the bedroom for as long as I can remember. I am turned on by rough, degrading sex with dominant men. Romantic love-making is a turn off. I thought by putting the word “submissive” before my name that I could attract followers with similar interests as mine.
2) What is the best thing about being born in the 90’s? I learned to be self-entertaining as a child, which ignited my creative side! I didn’t have an iPad or iPhone when I was young. I also didn’t play a lot of video games. I made up stories and played them out with my stuffed animals, or played horses with my bike when I wasn’t riding them for real. I started writing short stories in kindergarten, giving these self-made picture books to my teacher for extra-credit. I continued to write year after year. I read books all the time to help fuel my brain, too. Because I’m so creative, it makes me active. I like to have my hands in a little bit of everything- yoga, running, horseback riding, writing, webcamming, DIY projects, pole fitness, etc.
3) In your opinion what is the best thing about being blonde? The attention! In my opinion, blondes are the epitome of flashy and girlie. When we think of Barbie, we think of blonde Barbie (do the google image search of “Barbie” and you’ll see what comes up). In my personal experience, I changed my hair color to brunette one time and didn’t get nearly as many looks- I’m just better blonde!
4) What song/band could you listen on repeat all day long and never be tired of it? I could listen to Luke Bryan all day everyday. I used to despise country music. I was the classic girl who only listened to the latest hip-hop/pop radio station until my best friend asked if I wanted to go to a concert with her (she had a free ticket). I said sure, why not. We got free upgrade to seat tickets once we arrived, and when he came on and started singing…that was it for me. No wonder he got Entertainer of the Year that year! Now I can’t listen to the anything but country! It’s addicting and you don’t get tired of it like that stupid song “like a black widow, baby”.
5) What was the last spontaneous thing you have done? I’ve gone from relationship to relationship a lot and recently broke up with two men who were extremely controlling. I’m having an amazing time being single, and I thought one day- what do I want to do that I couldn’t do with them? I have no one holding me back. So I decided I want to visit all the places on my bucket list in a solo, 3-month trip to rediscover myself (inspired by my favorite movie Eat Pray Love). I booked an amazing travel agent on impulse. I’ll be visiting Italy, Greece, Africa (depending on Ebola), India, Bali, and Scotland. I call it my “Around-the-World Broadcasting Trip’ as I’ll still be chaturbating during it! I leave before labor day next year so I have all year to save up. I’ll be good-to-go next year, and I have my amazing followers to thank for this life-changing adventure!
6) Has anyone from Chaturbate bought you anything? Oh yes, just about every toy I own was bought by followers. I was gifted a Vixskin, 9” suction dildo, 7″ suction dildo, black dildo, clover clamps, nipple clamps, a Hitachi, an Ohmibod, a Lelo, small buttplug, Luna Ben Wa Balls, ‘Sir’ paddle, 3 G spot toys, and various clothing including some raunchy lingerie and an Ohio State Buckeyes dress. I’m fairly certain the only thing I buy myself is the lube! I am so grateful and lucky to have such amazing fans.
7) How did you find out you are a squirter? I found out I could squirt when I was with my ex. We were having sex doggie-style and he got me to clit and g-spot orgasm simultaneously. Well, that did it! I was thrilled. He always said I could do it because I was a natural gusher. After I broke up with him, I was lucky to meet a fan, Danny, who became my cyber-Dom. I told him I wanted to do it myself on Chaturbate, but I didn’t know how. So he bought me Ben Wa balls and had me use them daily starting at 30min. per day for awhile then bumped me up to a few hours over a month. I would practice for him in privates after my shows with a g-spot toy he bought me. Still, it was difficult. Then, in May 2014 I squirted for the first time on Chaturbate! And not just once, but several times. I was elated! Now doing it is a breeze. My record thus far is 55 times in a row (which will be broken on Dec. 20th)! I jokingly label my squirts. I have 3 different ones: The sprinkler (comes out in short bursts), the shooter (comes out fast and travels far), and the fountain (it comes out in a steady stream that can go above my head!). Yes, I’m a dork.
8) Do you have any hidden talents? Hmm, I have to say that besides being an amazing squirter, my hidden talent is how easily and often I orgasm! I’ve orgasmed when a guy is entering me. On average, I g-spot orgasm every 5-10 seconds, especially during sex, which is crazy because I didn’t start having g-spot orgasms until 3 years ago! I actually have to slow it down during my shows sometimes because guys aren’t ready for how soon I cum. Non-sexually, I am a talented writer. I’ve written two novels and multiple short stories. I’m planning on submitting one of my novels for publication this year. Oh, and most people don’t know I’ve been a horseback rider for 20 years and I can play an instrument!
9) Have you ever had a threesome? I had a threesome with two men. One was my ex-Dom and the other was his friend from work. It started out amazing at first. I was sandwiched between them, making out with his friend while my ex rubbed my breasts and bit my neck. We started having sex. I sucked off my Dom while the other man had sex with me, but about 15 minutes into it, the other guy lost his erection. I think he was intimated and let it get to his head. He never got it back so I didn’t get to do DP. But I will in the future! I have no doubt.
10) What is the wildest request you have received while webcamming? I’m laughing out loud right now. I was broadcasting in front of my fireplace (it’s a wood-burning fireplace). Some people were joking about me being a firefighter and being able to put out the fire with my squirt since that’s what I was doing. Then, someone asked me to squirt on the fire. I thought, this is hilarious and creative so what the heck? It’s at least entertaining if it isn’t exactly sexy. I stayed about 4 ft. back and squirted all over the fire! I actually got it the first try. I am very proud of my dorky self for that moment.
11) Have you ever had an embarrassing moment while broadcasting? This only happened once, thankfully. I was masturbating, preparing to squirt. My CB Dom was controlling how fast I’d go, denying me orgasm for a long time. When he does this, I typically do a bigger squirt than if I squirted with no restraint. So he’s building up my orgasm…I’m writhing trying not to cum before he says to, and then he finally says “squirt slut!” As soon as I pull out the dildo and start squirting, I experienced the worst leg cramp ever. I screamed and rolled onto my side trying to straighten out my leg (the cramp ran all the way up to my ass). My face gets beat red and I can’t stop laughing. I turn back to the camera, embarassed, and apologize. They were supposed to see this epic squirt and all they saw was me rolling around on the floor in pain. Fail.
12) Do you have any crushes on anyone at Chaturbate? O-my-god do I ever! As far as models go, Blazefyre and Birdylovesit are my girls! Love, love love them. No matter what day or time I go into their rooms, I’m always greeted warmly and I’m never bored! They’re adorable and they’re always open with their followers. Anya96 is another one of my crushes. She has the most amazing body. I don’t think that girl has ever laid out in the sun or eaten a single candy bar. She’s the sweetest person too. As far as users go, I wouldn’t be truthful if I didn’t say I had a smile on my face when they entered my room: danny8534, daniel6251984, darin2017 and many many others!
13) Where is the craziest place you have done a webcam show? I broadcasted in my car next to the beach a year ago after a 6 mile run. I had minimal cover beside the road, but thankfully it was during the day so there weren’t a whole lot of parked cars nearby. It was nerve-wracking because these men with fishing poles walked by the front of my car, and although the camera was facing away from them, they had a good view of me naked from the front windshield. I had to keep ducking in case they spotted me! To this day, I’m not entirely sure they didn’t see me as they kept going back and forth for stuff or a different location. Their intentions were unknown. I wouldn’t broadcast in my car again but I would do something wild like outside in my gazebo! Maybe when it’s not 30 degrees.
14) Are you into any fetishes? Do you bring your fetish on to webcam? I am into many kinky fetishes. I sometimes broadcast with my ball-gag, nipple clamps, or tie myself up with rope. My CB Dom, Danny, will take control over me in chat, too, telling me when I can and can’t cum, etc. I think everyone enjoys watching me submit! I also fantasize about being in a gangbang, being publicly disgraced and having a train done on me. I like being the center of attention. The idea of having all of these men all over me makes me wet! If I could find 5-10 men I trust and who are safe, I’d definitely verify them and bring them on camera with me. Wouldn’t that be a wild crazy-ticket show?
15) Tell us about your favorite sex toy: It’s a Vixskin 7” dildo. These dildos feel incredibly real. It’s soft and thick, and not too long. As the majority of my followers know, I have a tiny pussy. I’m unusually tight, so I have to be careful about what dildos I use. The ones that are stiff and hard make me sore after use. But this dildo doesn’t do that! It splits me open without hurting me. It’s the best thing I’ve ever played with besides my g-spot toy. It’s also the only realistic dildo-looking toy that makes me squirt like crazy! I love it so much I put another Vixskin dildo on my Xmas Wishlist.
16) Do you ever do boy/girl shows? I currently don’t cam with anyone else, however I’d leap at the chance to broadcast side-by-side with one of my model crushes (aka: blazefyre, birdylovesit, anya96)! I’ve only ever spooned with a girl, so the experience would be my first girl-on-girl, like losing my virginity all over again. I think it would be great fun, especially for my fans who haven’t seen me cam with a girl before. It’s another reason why I’d love to attend a Chaturbate convention and make more model friends because this site hosts a lot of cool girls.
17) If you can travel back in time, what era would you chose? This is going to sound dirty, but I fantasize about going back to Roman times when Gladiators were popular. They had such elaborate homes and muscular slaves! I would enjoy being a slave, used to fuck gladiators in a room full of aristocrats for the masters’ entertainment. Many men today have been conditioned to be wimpy, romantic, submissive. No one can throw a punch anymore. I am enthralled by those abrasive, fearless warriors who knew how to properly fuck a woman to oblivion.